Paying attention to the overstory... story activism story as a map story goes to work Mar 21, 2025

 This is the third part of our look at Malcom Gladwell's book Revenge of the Tipping Point. This part of his work mirrors what I always tell people: 

The story of place is always working in the background. You are in it, so you'd better be aware of it.

In fact, Gladwell says it like this: "Com...

Continue Reading...
The gift of being inn conversation together collective wisdom hosting the power of conversation Mar 17, 2025

 What is it that we can do together that none of us can do alone?

This is something that we discover every time we come together for a deeply meaningful conversation where the question at the centre of our circle resides in our hearts. We get reminded that there are things none of us can do well ...
Continue Reading...
Getting clear on the role of the superspreader... about stories listening stories from the journey Mar 15, 2025

Here's Part 2 to my report on Malcom Gladwell's book "Revenge of the Tipping Point."

This is what most of us think of as a "superspreader" -- someone who is sneezing loudly in a public place. Recently I heard one parent talk about their kindergarten aged kids as "germ factories." 🤢

But, and only...

Continue Reading...
Who am I now in the face of this? Mar 11, 2025

For more than a year I've been listening to people's questions and stories and noticing a red thread through all of them -- the question: "Who am I now in the face of this?"

"This" might be anything...

I had one conversation with two people where "this" was something major. And devastating.

Other...

Continue Reading...
Finding the Tipping Point about stories collective wisdom stories from the journey Mar 09, 2025

A very interesting read for times like these.

Last week I just finished reading Malcom Gladwell's 25 year update to his bestselling The Tipping Point. The subtitle for this volume is "Overstories, Superspreaders and the rise of social engineering." And yes, you should be paying attention to all of ...

Continue Reading...
Wondering what's going on and who you are now? Feb 27, 2025

Anyone who flies a lot knows you can't take anything for granted.

 Long ago in my facilitation practice, when I learned about Open Space Technology, I was really struck by the four principles and the one law. I could immediately see how they could be a way to travel the world with less struggle and...

Continue Reading...
What if there was more love in the world? musing stories in a word work of the heart Feb 14, 2025

Today is Valentine's Day. It's time to change our story about LOVE. 

Love is not fluffy, soft and only to be sought in romantic terms. Love is basic to human nature, the glue of human society, a basic practice we all can share.

Today is one day to remember that love is not a feeling -- love is a v...

Continue Reading...
What to do when you're between lightening and the thunderclap.... art of hosting flow game people in practice practice stories from the journey Feb 13, 2025

How do you stay the course?

This past week I've had many interesting conversations with people all over the globe. In a call with a practitioner friend today, she admitted to me that she regularly wakes up in the night with anxiety and a racing mind. She told me about a term I wasn't familiar with ...

Continue Reading...
What's the best gift you can give these holidays? power of questions Dec 20, 2024

The best thing Santa can give you this holiday season will not be found under the tree. Is it the power of questions. 

When I think back over my time in groups -- and I mean ALL groups including my family -- the most important thing I've learned is that asking a question with genuine curiosity when...

Continue Reading...
Pondering the journey of 2024 flow game power of questions stories from the journey Dec 18, 2024

I'm back in Ohio again, slowly putting the pieces back together before my holiday trip to my sisters starting this weekend. I've been to the osteopath and the massage therapist (both more than once), I've got all the stuff that needs to go to family boxed up and also items sorted out for my trip to ...

Continue Reading...
What if life is actually an invitation to inquiry? hosting power of questions Oct 08, 2024

The more I look at how people are acting in the world, the more I can see the value we've created around knowing. 

We want to know how things work. We want to know the perfect answer. We want to know the gossip. We want to know the truth. We want to know we are right. We want to know we have been s...

Continue Reading...
What bees teach us about where the story goes next life stories stories from the journey Sep 27, 2024

 I am so grateful to all those neighbours who decided to plant flowers. When I go on my daily walks I get their beauty for free, but I also get a reminder from Nature about the core strength of human beings.

See, human beings are a lot like bees.The reason we have become such a dominant species is ...

Continue Reading...
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13